As the seniors prepare to leave their high school lives behind, some choose to attend college far away, while others chose to live their college lives close to comfort. Some people know from an early age exactly what they want to be and how they plan to get there. Not all of us are so sure of our plans, though and that’s okay.

It’s a scary thing; it’s the first step into adulthood. It’s a drastic change from having your laundry neatly folded by mom and a nice hot meal every night, to having to do it all yourself. Some experience an easier transition into college life and feel comfortable living farther away from home, but others decide to experience college close to home.

Personally, my excitement for college life and the opportunities it will bring makes me that much more ready and willing to go off to an out-of-state college. The new people, new foods, new friends and new sights to see are intriguing to my adventurous soul. The positives of living in a new place outweigh the frightening thought of having to be fully self reliant and on my own. Whether you’re outgoing or shy, college is a huge place teeming with possibilities. With so many people from different places, you’re bound to find your niche soon enough.

On the other hand, some graduates aren’t ready for such a quick transition after high school. My sister for example attended Molbery Community College in Columbia, MO after she graduated, and found someone to room with in an apartment.  Although she had the comfort of a friend living with her during her first year of college, it wasn’t easy, and it was clear she wasn’t ready to leave home just yet.

She returned home after one year and used a few months to take time off and work before applying to a university in Florida when she was ready. Taking time off before college is becoming a more popular route to follow. Some find jobs and save money for college, some travel, or just use the time to rejuvenate before jumping into school. This break between high school and college life is a great time for some to learn and grow in different ways that will benefit them and make a more steady transition into adulthood.

There are a few things you can consider before making your decision:

• What are my strengths? Weaknesses?
• Do I want to stay close to home or farther away?
• Would I prefer to be in a city environment or a small college town?
• Do I like being with people who are mostly like me or do I want to meet a diverse group?

Ask friends or family members who are in or have graduated college about their personal experience and what advice they can give you. Which ever path you decide to travel on, staying driven and focused will ensure your success after high school.